memcached: Revert wolfSSL_in_connect_init changes

Author: kareem-wolfssl

src/ssl.c

@@ -29505,7 +29505,13 @@ int wolfSSL_SSL_in_connect_init(WOLFSSL* ssl)
     if (ssl == NULL)
         return WOLFSSL_FAILURE;
 
-    return ssl->options.handShakeState == NULL_STATE;
+    if (ssl->options.side == WOLFSSL_CLIENT_END) {
+        return ssl->options.connectState > CONNECT_BEGIN &&
+            ssl->options.connectState < SECOND_REPLY_DONE;
+    }
+
+    return ssl->options.acceptState > ACCEPT_BEGIN &&
+        ssl->options.acceptState < ACCEPT_THIRD_REPLY_DONE;
 }
 
 #ifndef NO_SESSION_CACHE